Foodsholic

If there are two things I've always wanted to blog about, they will be about food and travel. A friend has already started a traveling blog wandergeek a few months ago and I am one of the contributors. Well, nothing much has been going on with the blog recently as all authors seem to be having pretty hectic life.

Here I want to introduce a new blog about food, www.foodsholic.blogspot.com. Just started and it will definitely be updated quite often. As of now, there are 3 authors contributing so I hope you guys enjoy reading foodsholic!

Ciao

Narcissism

Have u ever wondered why others are so interested in brad pitt’s life but not in yours? Easy. Because he is Brad Pitt and you’re not..

I had this talk with a friend and colleague the other day.. discussed about things happening in the world lately (ritee..).. and we came to a conclusion that some people were just plain narcissistic.. we know, people need to be heard and be seen.. but we wonder, do ppl need to be heard and be seen that much? like a friend said, some are so eager to tell you about what's going on in their life they could even trick u into asking them questions about their life.. (really..? seriously..?)

So, here's the thing, people may not be all that interested in your life, you and your job, you and your partner, you and all the things happening in your life, again, unless you’re Brad Pitt or Beckham.. So, if u feel u're very successful now then glad to hear that.. but then again, that doesn’t mean we’re interested in knowing the details.. if u fail, it's ok, don't commit suicide because we probably don't even have enough time to gossip about u.. the last time we really had this commit-suicide-kinda-talk was only when heath ledger did.. so if u’re not him, stop acting like one..

See, people like us.. we barely have enough time to think about our own life and our closest relatives’ and friends' matters (don’t forget that on top of that, we still have all those interesting news on brad pitt & co.).. we just somehow, somewhat do not have enough time to be such busy-body checking out your lives.. don't be upset, this is just truth.. if we're interested, we'll ask.. even if we ask, that doesn't necessarily mean we're interested.. so please stop tricking people into asking or hearing about ur life.. we’re afterall human, we can be exhausted too..

Seriously, after realizing how annoying this could be.. let's start over if u ever thought i did such trick before, i swear it was never intentional.. ;P

There are 3 things that I discovered lately..

Every problem has a solution, even if it doesn't, one just has to forgive oneself.

I believe, for some reasons, everyone should have a certain amount of ego, at the right place, at the right time. On the other side of the world, there are people with incredible amount of ego which is incredibly annoying. No matter how big one's ego is, one still has to say thank you or sorry. That's an unspoken rule for socially acceptable behavior. It's called etiquette.

Some people talk too much about the things they don't know much about.. They build assumptions.. they have their own knowledge which you have no idea where they receive it from.. Until the point that.. no, it's not that u feel like whacking them hard..
u just don't feel like talking to them any longer.. exhausting it is..

We're all human, we're flawed but really, some people just don't know when to stop.