Friday, May 04, 2007

We will get used to it...

When I was at a very young age, there were two things I feared the most; somebody, whom I’ll not further elaborate, and going to school.. School wasn’t a fun place to be at, teachers were not as nice, they walked around with a weapon called rattan.. and if u’re not born to be one of the outstanding ones, that’s just it.. well, there’s also a possibility that I was not a very pleasant kid back then and maybe a bit weird on some level, I admit..

After some time, rattan was no longer a horror.. it didn’t matter which teacher standing and teaching in front.. after all, nothing was different.. seniors who bullied were no longer a monster.. once, we didn’t have the gut to fight back.. we got used to our own self instead..

Remember the time when those people in ur life leaving one by one because… I don’t know, they just had to.. they found new lives or they found new friends.. once, we were naïve.. we got hit pretty hard, didn’t we? yet, after some time, it didn’t seem to matter.. we got used to it, to the fact that people drifting in and out of our life..

There were times when we received rejection letters from the universities we applied to or negative responses from companies.. after such a long wait, we finally just ended up sitting and stoning.. how it felt when a hope shattered in a second, we knew it.. but we got used to it too..

The thing is, how painful all the things on earth can be.. although we will never forget, we will get used to it.. just make sure u get used to the right things.. no wonder most people don’t get what they can really be happy with until they die.. bcos they get used to the things they don’t like that much and they live with it as if they we can never be happier..

No wonder..

Finally I went to the Egeskov Castle… it was beautiful..

From the entrance toward the castle...

Here's the castle...


The castle surrounded by parks, gardens and museums..


3 comments:

Anonymous said...

oi oi ... you alright?
but i gotta admit, the first time (friends/rejection/all the negative things!) hurts the most, then "ouch!", then "used to it" but nonetheless it still hurts, okay!!! :(
so are trying to say that we need to search for happiness? no matter how cruel this world is?

THE VIEWS ARE AMAZING!!!!!!!!!
I wanna go there too!!! you better memorize everything (the route, the history, etc.), okay! so next time, you can be my tour guide! :D *save money* HAHA

~dewi

Sri said...

Beautiful pictures!!! I'm back, up and running! Read somewhere not long ago that all the wisdom in the world can be summed up in these words: "This too shall pass". What wise people. :)

Diahz90 said...

wi --> i'm coming back to denmark, but maybe not egeskov, unless ada sponsorship yah.. haha and eh, i'm perfectly fine.. just a thought..

sri --> u're back and u should go back there again, cos i wanna tag along next time.. haha.. this too shall pass.. i like that.. =)